Friends - How strong is the word?

Yesterday while watching Step up 2, there was this scene whereby the girl got kicked out of the group she called "family" because her "family" didn't understand her. I pity her because the people she calls "family" are not understanding at all. Then, i thought about my own "family". The picture above depicts more than 20 odd people going on a holiday. To me, they are one of the most wonderful people i've met in my life. People ask me, how does such a big clique survive without quarrels? I tell them that we don't have any quarrels with each other because we are very understanding people. However, i realised that the group does have problems. Maybe because only i am the problem. Shifu says that i'm being too paranoid but i just have to get things clear in case misunderstandings go deeper. The word "bo jio" is really scary. It's like a really big crime to go out without asking everyone out. I mean, i too will be affected if people go out without asking me. However, i'd still say that i won't not ask you out on purpose if i were to be going out.Okay, out of point. Anyway, i will still make things clear here.

1. The gym sessions at my house were not even organised by me.

2. My gym only allows 2 guests.

3. I don't even go to most of the gym sessions even if they are at my house.

4. The day we went to ikea, it was because siying's friend's birthday and we just went there to get the jar for his muffins.

yeah, that would be all i guess. maybe i'm really too sensitive. I think it's weird to be blogging about all these but you know me, i'm like that.